ETERNAL GROWTH

Life is a never-ending journey of discovery, with endless opportunities to explore, learn, and grow.

There is a vast world out there waiting to be discovered, and no matter how much we think we’ve seen or experienced, there will always be more to learn.

We will never meet every person or know every corner of this planet, but that is the beauty of life — the endless possibilities and the thrill of the unknown.

In life, we will face both joyous and challenging moments, and how we choose to approach them is our choice.

I have always felt a deep connection to nature, but my downfall was my refusal to accept the things I could not change.

It wasn’t until later that I finally found the courage to venture beyond my comfort zone and explore new world perspectives.

I used to think that if I stayed true to my morals and values, I could easily navigate life. However, I’ve realised that life is tough no matter what, but at least I can take comfort in knowing that I always strive to keep my conscience clear.

My primary focus is staying true to my values and fearlessly defending my beliefs and what is important to me.

I am grateful to accept myself, single with no responsibilities, and be free to live to the best of my ability.

I am not selfish, as I deeply empathise with those who are ‘truly’ in need.

While I may not provide financial support, I am fully dedicated to offering others my spiritual, mental, and emotional presence.

I use “truly” because people have attempted to exploit my good nature, so I must be cautious.

Although I can understand and relate to others’ struggles, I refuse to spend time with individuals who continuously make poor choices and find themselves in the same difficult situations. I leave that to the professionals.

I firmly believe in dedicating my time to those in need of mental, physical, or spiritual healing rather than indulging in negativity and drama.

My passion is meaningful conversations and active listening, not hands-on services.

I sometimes face personal obstacles in my mind, soul, and heart that require my attention and care, and I have learnt to focus on my well-being first.

Many individuals choose to set aside their own challenges to assist others. I was once part of this group, but when I needed support, I discovered that no one reached out to me.

I now understand the importance of checking my emotions before diving into someone else’s issues.

Through my own experiences, I have understood the significance of pausing and reflecting before making any hasty decisions.

I have embraced the practice of patiently contemplating decisions, willing to wait weeks or months if needed, and approaching new situations with caution rather than diving in headfirst.

Having made errors while under pressure, I now choose to forgo opportunities rather than risk making a committed mistake.

I have also mastered the art of politely declining requests without needing to justify my decision.

If I’m not feeling it, I’m not doing it.

It’s perfectly fine to be truthful and assertive, and trying to guilt trip me will never work.

I have dwelled in self-pity for far too long to now indulge in the pity of others.

I have gained more wisdom from life now than I ever thought possible.

I can confidently assert that I am not easily swayed, naive, or prone to revealing my vulnerabilities to others.

I always feared that losing the person I cherished most in the universe would have a profound impact.

Losing loved ones is an unavoidable part of life, especially when it comes to family.

While each loss is difficult to bear, the absence of my beloved Father, who was the foundation of my world, has left a void that nothing else can fill.

The pain of losing a parent or sibling runs deep, unlike the loss of a colleague, which doesn’t compare in its intensity.

I acknowledge that there will be further losses, as they seem to be a constant presence.

However, I am committed to navigating through them without sacrificing my sense of self.

Losing touch with our true selves leads to our downfall.

In times of vulnerability, we risk losing our sense of self and falling into unhealthy dependencies on the wrong individuals.

These individuals are eager to control your thoughts, emotions, and perceptions by pulling your strings like a puppet, but only if you grant them the power to do so.

Despite the inherent freedom we are born with, some individuals find themselves entrapped in a cycle where they allow others, whether it be their partners or children, to take control of their lives. In doing so, they willingly relinquish their power and autonomy.

Some individuals have been stripped of their ability to speak up or share their thoughts because they have been manipulated into thinking they are incapable of forming opinions or contributing to discussions.

After surrendering your rights to another, you walk in their shadow.

We all can form and express our opinions, regardless of whether they are acknowledged.

I make a conscious decision to avoid discussions about religion, race, and politics to prevent potential conflicts and maintain peace in my life.

I am always striving to improve myself. I focus on being more accepting and understanding of others, recognising that their choices are not my responsibility unless they affect me directly.

Simply put, I am learning to mind my own business.

Through my continuous observation of the actions and habits of those around me, I have realised that, deep down, everyone craves acceptance and a sense of belonging.

But I am also wary of those deceiving themselves into thinking they possess all the answers.

They hold their words as absolute truths; when faced with reality, they evade taking complete accountability for their misconceptions.

Those who see themselves as experts may attempt to evaluate and diagnose you, but their assessments are not always correct.

No one knows you better than yourself.

Through ongoing self-discovery, uncovering your true desires, and striving to find your purpose, you will always stay enlightened and never fall for deception.

In everything, there must be a balance.

Natalie M Bleau

Scripture of Balance