NEVER A MOTHER TO BE

I have the utmost respect for any woman who can dedicate her mind, body, and soul to bringing life into this world, caring and making endless sacrifices for her children.

This is no simple task but rather a lifelong commitment that requires unwavering dedication.

The countless sleepless nights spent tending to their needs, the endless cycle of feeding and clothing them, and the tireless effort put into teaching them respect and good manners.

Enduring through challenging behaviours and disrespect, yet still loving and supporting that child unconditionally.

I have no regrets about not having children, as I recognise that I may not have been the best parent.

My lack of patience and tendency to be overprotective could have hindered their growth and independence.

The dangers of indulging a child’s every demand has its consequences, as the relationship can become toxic and as adults, they may continue to emotionally manipulate you in order to get what they want.

Raising children has its ups and downs.

Having a supportive and loving husband is truly a blessing, especially when he embodies the qualities of a true gentleman and real Father.

To be a successful parent, it is essential to establish boundaries. Regardless of the challenging child without setting limits, you are setting yourself up for failure.

While I love children, I am grateful that I will never have the responsibility for another life, as I know I would have made many mistakes.

I feel fortunate to have had the joy of witnessing my nieces, and nephews grow into incredible adults. That is all I could ever ask for.

Please don’t pity the decision I made or label me as selfish. Not every woman is suited for the role of motherhood.

This does not diminish my worth as a woman; it simply means I spared a child I could have had from my shortcomings.

Natalie M Bleau