SEPTEMBER REFLECTIONS
How frequently do we rely on the promises of others without question?
How often do we hastily accept advice from individuals lacking in experience?
It is essential to engage in critical thinking in order to reveal the truth that shapes our decisions and actions.
While it's important to consider good advice, ultimately, the responsibility lies with you to make your own decisions.
Some individuals believe they possess great wisdom, yet struggle to navigate their own lives effectively.
When it comes to advice, you have the choice to accept it or ignore it.
Always keep in mind that every action you take will have a consequence.
In the end, you are solely responsible for the choices you make, and when things don't go as planned, you can't point fingers at anyone else for the path you chose to follow.
Natalie Bleau Author
Have you ever taken a moment to observe how much of social media is saturated with disagreements and grievances?
Having a differing opinion is not permitted without facing insults.
Individuals expressing profanity and expletives in response to someone advocating for justice.
This problem can be resolved with a solution.
If it doesn't concern you, don't give it any attention. If you are unable to offer a thoughtful response, don't respond.
If you carry a heavy burden of hate and malice, keep scrolling.
If you feel the urge to reply, please do so with mindfulness.
In the midst of our hectic lives, we often forget to stop and admire the beauty that is all around us. It is only when we pause and take a moment to appreciate our surroundings that we truly see the magic in the world.
When I'm feeling down, I find solace in nature. I retreat to the park or cemetery, immersing myself in the beauty of the trees and surroundings.
Set aside a moment each day to marvel at the wonders of the natural world.
No matter your location, there are always green spaces to be found.
Often, we claim to be intimately connected with someone without truly understanding who they are.
We have consistently failed to truly listen to their words, instead only absorbing what we found personally engaging.
You assume that when you speak they will hang on your every word.
It is possible to be in a relationship with someone without truly understanding them, as physical attraction often takes precedence over emotional, spiritual, and mental connections.
Greetings & blessings to you all 🙏🏿
I hope that in time, you understand this message, as it is futile to spend your life punishing yourself for your past.
It is essential to grant yourself forgiveness and progress by striving to become the most excellent version of yourself.
I understand that there are individuals who are resistant to change, but for those who desire a life filled with fulfilment, it is essential to break free from your past self.
There is a contrast between a insincere smile and someone making an effort to smile despite their pain.
I find that smiling comes easily to me, especially when I am truly at ease with those around me.
However, during the depths of my sorrow, my smiles were genuine but lacked the light in my eyes.
I can't picture myself having the cleverness or fake smile that haters possess.
Integrity: the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles that you refuse to change:
Each night, I reflect on my actions and behaviours, acknowledging that I am not oerfect and always in control, so I take a moment to learn from my mistakes.
I can confidently say that I am staying true to myself and refusing to sacrifice my principles or beliefs for anyone or anything..
Rest assured, I am genuine. I have no need to pretend, I am always true to myself and show the world who I really am.
There are moments when our emotions get the best of us, particularly when we find ourselves in the midst of conflict, causing us to lose our self-control.
In that instant, we make choices or utter words that are irreversible.
I feel a sense of pride in standing up for myself and responding promptly to any mistreatment, as I refuse to be perceived as a victim of abuse.
I choose to respond with intelligence instead of conforming to the expected conventional behaviors.
Engaging in verbal attacks or insults will not solve the problem; it will only exacerbate it and make you appear foolish.
There are moments when my frustration with unfairness can cause me to speak bluntly and use strong language.
In the present day, I am conscious of the importance of communication and how easily words can be misinterpreted.
I strive to communicate clearly and simply to avoid any misunderstandings.
At times, individuals may push us to make a significant choice that has the potential to change the course of our lives.
Rushing into decisions without thoughtful consideration of the advantages and disadvantages can detrimentally affect our future well-being.
Do not allow your choices to become chains that bind your liberty.
I refuse to be labeled as a coward; I will always stand up and speak the truth when necessary.
The most aggravating aspect of life for me is the routine meetings I regularly attend that fail to generate any meaningful outcomes or progress.
When my passion for people-centric causes ignites, it often sparks drawn-out discussions that unfortunately end up benefiting the organisations more than the individuals involved.
I'm starting to suspect that this is merely a formality meant to derail me from pursuing my goal.
#realtalk #honestymatters #FightingForLife
If you are coasting through life without any challenges, it may be because you are not truly experiencing all that life has to offer.
While some may boast of a trouble-free existence, the inevitable moment will arrive when they are confronted with the true essence of life and its challenges.
When the time arrives, they will find themselves confronting it in isolation, having lived a self-centered life without regard for anyone but themselves and how they can exploit others for their own benefit.
Wake up, that is the harsh truth of life. No human being will escape the fate of mortality.
Natalie M Bleau
#realtalk
It's easy to get upset by annoying comments, especially from people you're unsure about.
These remarks can lead us to think, act, or speak irrationally, making our day unpleasant without us noticing.
Instead of letting your frustration or irrationality affect others, try to stay calm.
Do not let anyone disrupt your equilibrium.
Natalie Bleau Author
The ability to communicate effectively is a valuable asset that we all possess.
The way we convey our thoughts and the moment we choose to speak can have a significant impact.
One sentence has the power to lift someone up or tear them down.
Exercise mindfulness when engaging in conversations with others.
Learn from your successes, not just your failures~ Building on past achievements boosts confidence and knowledge for future success. Progress comes from small steps in the right direction.
The world is filled with people who think and act dysfunctionally.
Instead of being envious and negative towards others' accomplishments, why not celebrate their success and recognise the effort they put in to achieve their goals?
Let go of toxic thoughts and adopt a more positive and supportive mindset.
Ego is responsible for many negative traits in humans, like criticising others, being manipulative, inflexible, seeking approval, and feeling superior to others.
A significant amount of hate and prejudice stems from deliberate ignorance.
People who are truly ignorant may not realise their own shortcomings and stubbornly cling to their beliefs, even if they are irrational.
Do not allow your pride to lead to your downfall.
In today's society, it can be challenging to find the right balance between kindness and self-preservation. We all strive to be generous and compassionate, but we also fear being exploited.
Achieving this delicate equilibrium requires a mix of assertiveness and humility.
If you tend to lean towards assertiveness, consider practicing more humility by giving others the space to share their thoughts and feelings.
On the other hand, if you feel the need for more assertiveness, don't hesitate to speak up by asking questions or offering praise to those around you.
Finding the right balance is key to navigating the complexities of human interaction in our modern world.
Natalie M Bleau Author
