WORKING TO LIVE
I used to prioritise work above all else, with my entire life revolving around it. Even when I went out with friends, thoughts of Monday morning lingered in the back of my mind. I believed I would be in that job forever until the company made me redundant.
Feeling undervalued and reduced to a mere statistic can be disheartening and demoralising. It's important to be recognised and appreciated for your individual contributions and worth.
This wake-up call prompted me to focus on self-improvement through further education.
One of my coworkers shared with me that he never remains in the same role for more than a year because he is constantly seeking opportunities for advancement in different organisations.
HE USES THEM NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND.
In hindsight, being let go was a blessing in disguise as it pushed me to pursue opportunities for advancement that I may have otherwise overlooked.
Additionally, staying in a toxic work environment where I was mistreated felt akin to being institutionalised, and I am grateful for the chance to break free from that cycle.
Finding a job that you truly love can bring a sense of balance and fulfilment to your life.
Transitioning from a life of mediocrity to one filled with purpose and meaning can be truly transformative, allowing you to embrace each day with enthusiasm and gratitude.
IN ADDITION
Unfortunately, that is the harsh reality.
Thirteen years ago, I made the decision to let my life revolve around my job, leading me to become complacent. I naively believed that I would be there indefinitely, considering I had already dedicated over a decade to the company.
Losing my job due to redundancy left me feeling like life had lost its meaning.
Initially, I was consumed by anger and resentment.
However, looking back, I realise that being let go was a blessing in disguise. Staying in that company would have condemned me to a life of mediocrity, with no room for growth or advancement.
The fears I once had about the management I once admired have now been revealed as nothing but a facade.
If only I had approached things with a different mindset, I could have avoided the bullying and prejudices I endured. I would have walked away from that job without hesitation.
I am filled with humble pride for the progress I have made and the growth I continue to experience.
If I had passed away that year, they wouldn't have given it a second thought. So, for what it's worth, no job is worth sacrificing your well-being for.
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Author Natalie Bleau
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